Can You Laugh At Yourself?

I, myself, am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions. Augusten Burroughs, American writer

I find people who can laugh at themselves very attractive. Self-deprecating individuals have enough self-esteem to make fun of their flaws, speak with direct honesty, and make me laugh. While these folks are tickling my funny bone, they are doing something good for themselves as well. Experts link self-deprecating humor with increased levels of optimism and an opportunity to be perceived as more lovable and approachable.

Laughing at ourselves introduces a little cheer into our otherwise serious world and lets others know it’s okay to be imperfect.

Affirmation: I can laugh at myself.

Coaching questions: Do you have a person flaw or social faux pas story you tell on yourself? How do people respond to you? How do you perceive people who can laugh at themselves?

 

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2 thoughts on “Can You Laugh At Yourself?

  1. Of course I can laugh at myself. Sometimes I’m the only one around when I do something laughable so if I don’t laugh at myself there is no one else available. It is sad if you meet someone who thinks they are so perfect that a little laugh would make them so much happier. Enjoy your less then perfect self and less then perfect day.

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