The few trees still upright were stripped of their branches, lonely flagpoles without a nation to claim them. Mike Mullin, author
More than three hundred twisters have wrecked havoc across the midwestern US states over the last two weeks alone. This is in addition to the unprecedented flooding across several states. People are in mourning for their possessions, their way of life, and the idea of life being the way they wanted it to be.
In Asian philosophy, this mourning of the loss of how we thought life would be is called Ego Death. I profoundly experienced this when I was divorced over twenty-five years ago. I mourned the loss of a nuclear family and how I thought my life would be. Those who have lost their homes, possessions, livelihood, or their way of life must be willing to have a funeral in their heart. Grieving the loss of our expectations, as well as possessions or even loved ones, is an important step towards recovery. There is no way around grief. To move forward, the path is straight ahead.
Affirmation: I accept the importance of grieving no matter what the loss.
Coaching question and request: What have you lost that you have yet to grieve? This could be something less profound than a parent, child, or spouse. Perhaps it is your innocence about the world. The loss of a friend, your most prized possession, or your way of life. Take a moment to think about your unfinished business around grief. Then do the work of having a funeral in your heart.
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Living in the state of NE which was and still is being hit hard by flooding can really relate to your blog today.
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That Midwest has really been hit hard. So sorry for all those people!
Just read an update that just north of Lousiville that HYW 75 is being monitored now as the Plattle River could go over the bridge and that is a busy highway to Omaha. Maybe 15 to 20 miles from where I live.